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「西洋人有一種阻隔，像月光下一只蝴蝶停在帶有白手套的手背上，真是隔得叫人難受。」--張愛玲 --西洋人愛笑，只要一個眼神交會，通常伴隨一個微笑，那是一個不輕不重，不帶有半點輕浮的笑，自然，也不會有任何深切的感情。 「所謂誠其意者，毋自欺也，如惡惡臭，如好好色。」--大學 --人生中越活越大越容易忘記的一課。 「有一天還在香港文華酒店飯廳裏見到他和夫人嚴倬雲靜靜吃著午飯，半點不像權力走廊上的人物，倒像個書香門第裏成長的清貴子弟，寫寫字唱唱戲玩玩古董喝喝茶，一生難遇翻騰的風雲，到老合該流連庭院裏淡淡的月色和依依的柳影。」---董橋寫辜振甫 --從簡單的文字裡，我似乎嗅到了淡淡的茶香與相依的身影，文字取代影像給了暮年的幸福最好的註記。 「Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.」--Robert Frost 他竟然在二十世紀初就是Amherst College的老師，他的雕像就在每天我去打網球的校園裡，爬上一個小山坡，轉一個彎，就在那兒。